Why the hek cant i get good guys!?

be friends first so you get to know the whole person, what they're like, personality, how they treat people, their friends, what they want in a relationship etc. There's alot more to someone than just looks. Learn from this and you'll become better at judging a person's character, you'll also make nice friendships too. Be positive, go out with your friends, do things you enjoy, meet people and make friends, see where the friendships go. No need to rush into dating anyone, you have your whole life ahead of you. Never get involved with someone uming you'll change them, and don't settle for less than what you're looking for in a relationship.